Friday, December 28, 2012

Happy 10 months Gus!! And Happy almost New Year!

Sweet.  Holy.  Moly.  Gus is 10 months old today.  2012 is nearly over.  I know as each month passes, I think the same thing, but sweet holy moly!  How does the time go so fast?!?  I know how.  2 trips to the airport on a near weekly basis.  A cross-country road trip.  3 roundtrip cross-country flights (with 2 babies no less).  A funeral.  Two weddings. Birthdays.  Essentially moving back in with the 'rents - both sets! Making new friends.  Visiting old friends.  Watching these babes o' mine change and grow by the second.  It's absolutely amazing.    So here goes my monthly tribute to Gus's first year, and a brief attempt at 2012 in review.

Arjen
One word, three letters: WOW.  I mean, I know babies change fast...I'm about to chronicle Gus's changes over just the past month here next.  But who knew that the changes after year two could be just as exciting and tremendous?? And this kid only just turned 2 not quite 3 months ago. (Okay, yes, I realize all you mom's out there with older kids already knew this).  But as much experience and wisdom exists out there beyond little ol' me, I still get surprised by the new wisdom and experience I gain each day as a young mom (yes, I am calling myself a young mom! I mean, my kids at least are young.  Sheesh.)

Perhaps having an emerging toddler racing to catch up with my near preschooler helps to put it all in perspective.  I feel like Arjen was just learning how to walk, and now here he is running, jumping off of elevated surfaces and landing on both feet.  Just yesterday, he put himself on a sled, and got down the hill all by himself!



Before I know it, I won't be able to keep up!  He is more than just a parrot now too.  The thoughts and words that come out of this kid's mouth shock us on a daily basis.  I mean, a) I now realize that I too, have to watch what comes out of my mouth as I hear it being repeated back to me, and in the proper context, and b) how is he possibly old/smart/big enough to know some of these things?? A recent favorite example:
Me: Arjen, where'd your food go?
Arjen: it's gone...in my mouth

Arjen and I were at the grocery store and he randomly blurted out "Daddy brings home the bacon." We were nowhere near the bacon.

He'll give us directions, correct ones, for which way to turn to get to Baba's house or Cher Cher's house

And the pretend play he now does:
- orange slices became a motorcycle and gas can
- banana peels became a trailer and hitch that say beep beep as they drive along the table
- he grabs his little motorcycle/carry-on bag, throws it over his shoulder, then goes to sit on the rocking horse and says "I go on trip" or "I go on adventure"

And the musical play:
- he'll sit down at the piano and proceed to "play" and sing Jingle Bells
- he picked up a microphone and started singing into it
- he sings himself and his brother to sleep

And the arts and crafts:
- he managed to swipe a pair of kid scissors from Baba's kindergarten class, and loves cutting paper to pieces
- he likes drawing, and now will actually tell us what the masterpiece on the paper is supposed to be (thankfully!)

He's starting to count and learn his letters.

And sometimes, just sometimes, I think he might actually be learning the difference between playing with Gus and trampling over Gus, and that we'd really rather he stick to playing.    Fortunately, Gus is getting older, wiser, and bigger too...

I'm 10 months old today!

...which brings me to Mr. Gus:
save the best for last? or start of with a bang?? it's almost new year's, lets go for big bang!!! watch...

Aaah, yes, the gentle giant is about to get even more mobile than he already is.  For the past few days, he's been wowing us with his attempts at taking 1-2 steps without holding on.  He actually cooperated today to give us this video!  And smiling the whole time no less.  For the past 10 months, everyone has been telling me what a happy baby he is.  I think I'm finally starting to realize how right they all are!  Not that I didn't agree already, but this kid really, truly, is a happy dude.  

He is becoming more expressive, or I should say communicative, now too.  He'll look or point in a direction he wants you to go (this he particularly likes doing in the middle of the night if I try to keep him in his room with Arjen to try and walk him back to sleep...he'll lean towards the door to say "no mom, take me to your room where I know you'll sit down to nurse me!").  Just the other day, both Andrew and I were convinced we heard him say "uh-oh" as he pointed to something that fell to the floor.  And I've had myself convinced for awhile now, that he definitely is saying "mama".  Call it selective hearing if you wish, but I know he's talking to me.  And I'm pretty sure he's showing the beginning of using baby signs.  A girl can dream!

Like his big brother, the boy can eat.  And he's getting the teeth to help too!  His two bottom teeth are close to all the way in now, and we just noticed the top two cutting through.  Maybe now he'll start sleeping better?? 

Gus has been impressing me this past week too, with a new focus I'm noticing when he plays with toys.  All of a sudden, he's really actually playing with the toys.  I remember this with Arjen too.  It's like watching a switch turn on in the brain and all of a sudden you can just see the mind working as he plays with toys: things fit inside other things, certain buttons make sounds, pieces move, and anything Arjen has his hands on must be the absolute coolest thing to check out!  On days when Gus is awake while Arjen naps, I can't help but smile at Gus as he enjoys checking out all the toys without being interrupted by his older brother.  Of course, I don't think to take photos of these moments, but I do have some pics and video of Gus's first sledding adventures.  A little outdoor quality time with mom and dad while big bro was napping...
I'm pretty sure this is the cutest kid ever







Okay, so maybe this isn't going to be a year in review.  In my mind at least, it's a retrospective?  I mean, to think of where we started at the beginning of the year, I would never in a million years have believed you if you'd have told me this is where we'd be now.  And 'this' being the figurative sense of the word, not geographical.  'Cause as most of you pointed out this holiday season, "where should we send your Christmas card?" But now that Christmas has come and gone (to which Arjen learned to say "Happy Birthday Jesus!"), all of a sudden, there's a glimmer of settling coming to light the end of our Gypsy tunnel.   Only one major event remains before we plan to actually move to Irvine: Shannon and Brian's wedding!!  Bring on 2013!!!


Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Merry Christmas!



Merry Christmas to you and yours!  This was the first year that we spent the entire holiday in Wisconsin, after missing the past two Christmas's due to babies (Arjen was too young as a premie to fly two years ago, and Gus was due too close to Christmas for my doctor to let me fly last year).  We were greeted Christmas morning with a sunny, white, winter wonderland:


We spent the morning primarily watching the boys' endless excitement about opening presents (well, Gus was mostly just watching Arjen).  Arjen was quick to learn that each gift had a tag with a name on it, and was fairly good about not just opening every gift.  Once all of Santa's gifts had been open though, it was a small challenge to get him to leave the remaining gifts for Andrew's family alone! 

"Yay!"
"Cheese!"
After a midday siesta, the rest of the Anderson's arrived at Grandma and Grandpa's house for more presents and dinner.  The kids all had a blast with the loot Santa left on Grandma and Grandpa's couch


Addy and Arjen patiently waiting
 I was holding Gus as we were getting ready to open presents with the whole family, and Arjen came over to lean in and share some love, so I couldn't help but ask for a photo op!


Surprise, surprise! Arjen got a new ding ding
Gus trying out his new rocking horse
Arjen gets a lesson on the Accordion from Grandma
Anderson Family Christmas, 2012

Saturday, December 22, 2012

More winter wonderland fun!

After the news worthy winter storm hit and ran, today brought us a gorgeous, sunny, winter day.  While Gus napped, Arjen, Andrew and I decided to do some sledding in the yard!
 

Friday, December 21, 2012

video post

Some videos from the past couple of days/weeks of the kids having fun...
 
Gus's contagious giggles, and Arjen's airplane while playing at the park in Irvine by Andrew's work:

 
the boys entertaining themselves on the airplane:
 
Arjen decorating Christmas cookies with his cousins:
 

 
Arjen helping me shovel while making fresh tracks in the blizzard:
 


 
 
"merry-oake" chipmunk style (I wasn't aware that Arjen knew what a microphone was, but he found this one of Grandma Cherie's, and proceeded to pick it up, push some buttons, then sing along!):

 
 
Gus and Arjen playing in the snow together for the first time (No judging the lack of gloves on Arjen...we were only going to be out there for 10-15 minutes!):
 
 
 


Wednesday, December 12, 2012

It's days like this

I think I've done a pretty good job these past 7 months with staying as low stress as I can with our new gypsy lifestyle. Mornings like this one really make it seem too easy!









Thursday, November 29, 2012

Happy 9 month birthday Gus!


9 months is an interesting one, because it reminds me that just about 18 months ago, I was in a totally different world of working full time, I had an eight/nine month old, and was 9 months away from getting another one!  Crazy.  Right now in my life, most of the time I don't know that I'd recommend to my friends/sisters to have kids this close together.  However, as I sit here typing (instead of doing laundry, cleaning breakfast dishes, getting myself dressed...the list goes on), I'm watching these two boys of mine fully entertaining themselves with a roomful of toys, and I've only had to intervene once or twice.  So I'd say that yeah, there is a light at the end of the tunnel of crazy, and maybe having kids this close in age is a pretty good thing after all.  I'm already seeing an incredible bond forming between these two.  While Arjen is still challenged with the task of being gentle with Gus, he clearly loves and wants to take care of his little brother (see video proof below). And Gus is starting to show signs of fighting back, err, standing up for himself, but clearly loves his big brother as he is constantly watching Arjen and trying to do what he does.

Anyways, what's Gus up to these days?
- cruising...the kid is not slowing down in his attempts to catch up with that brother.  he even took his first steps while holding my hands at the doctor's office yesterday.  Up until then, he'll cruise along walls and furniture, but would rather crawl than hold hands to walk.
- eating...surprise, surprise, I have another eating machine for a son.  I'm starting a grocery savings fund now.
- teething!... Gus cut his first two teeth just before Thanksgiving, and today, used them in self defense against Arjen.  oh boy.
- growing...at his 9 month check up yesterday, he measured in at 29.5 in tall and 23lb 15oz, both above the 90th percentile.  We are currently taking bets for when Gus outgrows Arjen. And to make the odds betting fair, Arjen measured 37.5 in tall, and 32lb 6oz.
- sleeping!...dare I jinx myself, but deciding to put Gus in the same bedroom as Arjen was probably one of my better parenting decisions recently - for myself as the parent.  We're still inconsistent, but Gus is finally starting to sleep through most of the night now, which means I am too!
- I'm sure there are more things that I am forgetting or not thinking of right now...call it mommy brain with residual sleep deprivation.

some pics and videos from today and the past month:
Gus's first adventures out of the stroller at a park.  This is the one near Andrew's office in Irvine. 

Aunt Shannie helped push the snoozing kids on a jog around Davis.  And Arjen was riding his Strider bike prior to napping in the stroller, hence the helmet!

During a playdate with Miss Sophie, Arjen received a very important business call.

Baba and her sous chef

Auntie Casey (or Dtee Dtee as Arjen pronounces it) getting some nephew love

Figured I'd throw in a pic of myself before my kids get old enough to read this blog and think I'm just a voice without a face!

Group date night with the Geerdinks and the Tsaos.  Frits is hiding behind Nina, otherwise all 5 kiddos are accounted for!

Picking "little oranges" as Arjen calls the tangerines

Arjen is determined to get Gus riding ding dings

brotherly love


The PT in me had to show off Gus's squatting skills!









Thursday, November 1, 2012

Fun Fall Days

Well, it's November and it definitely feels like winter, uh, I mean fall.  Depends on which part of the country you're in I suppose.  The kids and I are learning how to properly bundle up and enjoy a sunny fall day in Elkhart before it's back to summer in Irvine, then fall in Davis.  The trailer is packed, the rooms are looking awfully bare after living in WI these past 4 months, but there is always time to squeeze in some fun!


The Gus stays toasty warm thanks to some good hand-me-downs

Mr. Fix it and the Ham

Arjen gets to learn about leaf piles

Hey Mom!  Just ship me home in this box!

No matter the age, boxes are fun for any kid

A colorful fall sunset on Esker Ridge
Working on his rolling skills

A Midwest Fall (pun intended!)